Answers are private until everyone submits
Every session auto-deletes after 90 days
No account needed — code or email only
A conversation starter, not a scorecard
Each person fills out the same interest checklist privately. KinkLife lines up the answers and writes a plain-language summary of where you match, where you don't, and what's worth talking about next.
How it works
One person starts a session and shares a code. Everyone fills out their own list, privately. Results appear once the group is in.
Say how many people are comparing — just the two of you, or a wider group.
Send the link however you'd send anything else. No sign-up on their end.
Everyone rates the same list on their own. No one sees another's answers mid-way.
A matrix of overlaps and limits, plus a written summary generated once everyone's in.